Ask CancerCare

September 2007

Robin Hershkowitz

This Month's Topic: Coping with Gynecologic Cancers

Featured Expert: Robin Hershkowitz

Q. What resources are available for women with cervical cancer who have no medical insurance? I was going to a specialist and the cancer was then spreading into my uterus. I have had no treatment since due to lack of insurance.

A. The multiple challenges of being diagnosed and not having insurance can be stressful and emotionally difficult. Feelings such as anger, embarrassment or anxiety are very common, but these should not keep you from getting care. Give yourself credit for seeking help, and for learning about and using the resources that are available.

There are several options you can explore. Please keep in mind that it will require time and energy. It might be helpful for you to share with friends and family what you are experiencing and enlist them to make calls on your behalf. You may also contact local community or religious organizations that may be able to provide guidance and resources.

Being organized can help ease some of your anxiety. Keep a notebook with a list of people you want to call. Write down the name of the person with whom you speak, and what information they provide to you.

Here are more suggestions and resources that might be helpful:

Q. I was just diagnosed with uterine cancer and my OB-GYN did not refer me to anyone. How can I find a specialist?

A. Finding a specialist can be challenging for many women who are diagnosed with endometrial, or uterine, cancer. You deserve quality care, which includes getting information about your diagnosis, and being well informed of the treatment options and treatment goals.

A woman inevitably can feel overwhelmed at the time of diagnosis and finding a specialist will help you take control of the situation, and ease some of your concerns. To begin this process, consider locating a highly skilled gynecological oncologist. This is a doctor who specializes in the surgical care and medical treatment of women with cancer of the reproductive organs. Keep in mind that you want to choose a doctor who specializes in treating uterine cancer based on his or her credentials, as well as one with whom you feel comfortable and whose style you like.

Listed here are some resources that will help you in finding a specialist:

Gynecological Cancer Foundation
1-800-444-4441, website: www.thegcf.org
Provides doctor referrals through its toll-free number.

People Living With Cancer, the American Society of Clinical Oncology's website, allows you to search by doctor’s name, organization, location, specialty, and/or board certification.

National Cancer Institute (NCI) also provides information about finding a doctor.    

Additional tips:

CancerCare offers a uterine cancer website section and a fact sheet, “Doctor Can We Talk: Tips for Communicating with Your Health Care Team PDF that you might also find helpful.

Q. How do I deal with the possibility of infertility due to my cancer treatments?

A. Being diagnosed with cancer brings many complicated medical decisions. The uncertainty of infertility can create great emotional distress for women and their partners. Facing the possibility of not having your own children can be upsetting. This loss can affect your relationships and how you feel about yourself. If at all possible, before you make a decision about your treatment, take time to explore all the options available to you. Here are some other things you can do:

The possibility that one cannot have a child, or an additional child, is a loss and, as with other losses, you need time and space to grieve. This can raise many feelings including anger and sadness. You may want to speak with a social worker or join an online or telephone support group to connect with other women who are experiencing similar feelings.

Other helpful organizations include:

Q. I was diagnosed a few years ago with ovarian cancer and have finished my treatment, but now I’m afraid of recurrence. Is this normal?

A. After a diagnosis of ovarian cancer, a woman can feel vulnerable and experience a lot of uncertainty. The emotional, social and physical experience of having ovarian cancer can be overwhelming and living with this experience often leaves one with a fear of this happening again.

While your fears are typical and at times they many even vary. For example, around the time of your check-up, blood tests or when a milestones or anniversary is approaching you may feel sad, irritable or anxious. Becoming aware of this, and allowing yourself to acknowledge and accept your feelings is the first step. Developing ways to manage these feelings is extremely important and a way to be kind to yourself. An important act of kindness to yourself is to live in the now and find ways to balance your fear of recurrence with enjoying your life, and the hope for continued wellness.

Here are some suggestions about things you can do:

Remember, you can speak with a CancerCare oncology social worker about your concerns by calling 1-800-813-HOPE (4673). You can find additional information about recurrence concerns at the Lance Armstrong Foundation website and the People Living With Cancer website.

Robin Hershkowitz is currently the Director of Women's Cancer Programs at CancerCare and is responsible for the coordination of services to women diagnosed with breast and/or gynecological cancers. In her role, she provides individual and family counseling to women and their loved ones by telephone, online and in person as well as facilitates support groups.

The questions and answers listed above are from the September 2007 Ask CancerCare feature.  New Ask CancerCare topics are introduced every month. 

If you have additional questions about coping with gynecologic cancers, please contact CancerCare directly for information and guidance. CancerCare provides free professional support services, including counseling, education, financial assistance and practical help. These services are provided by professional oncology social workers. If you have a specific concern or question and would like to speak with an oncology social worker, please contact us at info@cancercare.org or 1-800-813-HOPE (4673).

For questions about medical issues, please visit Cancer.net, the patient information website of the American Society of Clinical Oncology (ASCO).

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